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The Things that Bugged: Annoyances in Oh Nine (or maybe just a recap of Christmas week.)

Rule 1. Every action done in company ought to be with some sign of respect to those that are present. George Washington Consider yourself forewarned. SP is channeling Andy Rooney today. After last week’s roundup of memorable Christmas quotes about the reason for the season and all that, SP ventured out into the world only [...]

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posted on December 29, 2009

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The Invitation Trials

SP takes a fair share of heat.  When there is an SP feature in a newspaper’s online version or on a blog, oh Lord do they come for me in the comments section. As you can imagine the fate of anyone who deigns to assess civil behavior, the positions staked on this domain are pretty [...]

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posted on December 14, 2009

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A Man Holds the Door

Isn’t it funny — and by funny, I mean sad — that the only photo around of a man opening a door for a woman is from the 1940’s? This fact should tell you more than you need to know and only serves to re-enforce the resolve of SP to offer up these little finds [...]

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posted on December 8, 2009

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Introducing: The SP Roadie (Go Cup)

SP has written, on many an occasion, of his love for the Go Cup, or Roadie to some. It is the essential partner to any aspiring bon vivant. What do you think makes us so social and eager to meet you? Booze, baby. And where do you keep that booze? In a Go Cup. And [...]

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posted on November 21, 2009

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Say Your Name

How many times do you find yourself in this social (or business) situation? You are standing in a covey of people immersed in a rolling conversation when all at once you realize that you don’t know the names of some of the people you are talking to. There is a queasy feeling of awkwardness rising [...]

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posted on October 28, 2009

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Ask SP: Readers’ Queries Answered

Readers’ questions answered. Reader 1 I am hoping that you could help me find a solution for properly responding to offers to shake hands in business situations. You see, I have Rheumatoid Arthritis, which I don’t particularly want to announce upon meeting someone new. Handshaking is very painful for my affected hands and causes visible [...]

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posted on October 21, 2009

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Classical Music Perfomance: The Rules

Now that the season is upon us, get out there and enjoy the culture. If you are invited to the philharmonic or a chamber music performance, don’t be intimidated if you’ve never been. Herewith a simple list of what to expect and how to prepare. Rules Familiarize before you go – Find the music or [...]

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posted on October 12, 2009

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Pleased to Meet You. Please Don’t Touch Me.

This recent article in the New York Times has me thinking about social interactions and the cold and flu season. How many times have you been out and someone shakes your hand or offers you a kiss on the cheek only to follow the act up with “I have a terrible cold.” Oiy. What next? SP [...]

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posted on October 8, 2009

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Business Lunch: Keep it Under the Fork

A friend wrote to me the other day saying he witnessed a most unfortunate incident during a business lunch recently. At the table next to him were seated an older gentleman with a younger chap. By the nuggets of overheard conversation, the two were obviously engaged in an employment interview situation and it was Chappy [...]

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posted on October 1, 2009

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Social Climber: Lend a Helping Hand

Belaying – is a climbing technique of securing the climber during his climb. First let’s get this out of the way right at the beginning. There are many people out there who say Social Climber like it’s a bad thing. SP has never thought this way. Hello, there is no mistake that Social Primer rhymes [...]

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posted on September 23, 2009

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