Comments on: SP Hit List: Think Before You Leap

By: Howard

Howard — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 14:53:38 +0000

The Main Line equivalent of piss elegance was backstairs refined. Different name, same pig.

By: A. Kurtz

A. Kurtz — Thu, 07 May 2009 19:29:02 +0000

“Speak softly and carry a big stick…”

-Teddy Roosevelt

By: Julie

Julie — Thu, 07 May 2009 15:55:06 +0000

I have to admit I have been guilty of this social sin myself, though on a smaller scale. Ironically, the act of opening my mouth inappropriately usually stems from a lack of self-confidence, which results in “overplaying the hand” and ending up looking foolish, as you wisely point out. I have learned your lesson well–sit back, study and speak up only when appropriate and when you know of what you speak.

By: tartanscot

tartanscot — Thu, 07 May 2009 00:59:42 +0000

lol – sounds like it was a tough evening. great post.

By: Dave

Dave — Wed, 06 May 2009 22:01:14 +0000

I find this particular piece very interesting. The advice given therein is very reminiscent of Lord Chesterfield’s Letters to His Son. Therein Chesterfield tells his son that he should find ways to enter into conversation with whatever company he keeps by first observing their customs & etc. I myself follow this rule. I am a college student and I find myself following this rule even in my classrooms. I generally sit toward the rear of the room so that I can better observe the mood/climate of the class. If the class and professor appear to be rambunctious then I too will put on a show and be witty & etc. However if the room is sombre and still I will follow suit. The same applies to business meetings at my current employer. I generally take a seat near the rear and observe until I feel I have a grasp on the situation.

Great post SP. Keep them coming!